My Marriage…With Bisi Adewale

Can you recollect the principal words you said to your better half when you met her? I can’t recollect because we have been companions for a long time before we considered marriage. We were in the same partnership and class so I can’t recall the principal words I said to her.

When did you realize you could wind up getting married to her? I put stock in seeking the face of God for anything, especially something as vital as the decision of a soul mate. At a stage in my life, I began to pray to know who the person would be. I had certain individuals in mind yet God specifically let me know that she will be the one. It was then that I met with a portion of my guides and my father-in-the Ruler who gave me counsel and also looked for the face of God with me. After that, I addressed her.

What occasion made your wedding day memorable? I launched a book, “10 Commandments for Spouses” on that day and it launched our ministry completely. This happened during the reception so it became a reception cum book launch. It was an interesting day and the visitors were surprised that the young fellow had recently gotten married had a book for couples. Everyone at the wedding returned home with a book composed by the lucky man.

How has the marital excursion been? It has been a satisfaction of Maxims 18:22, “He that findeth a spouse, findeth something to be thankful for and obtaineth favor from the Ruler.” I have seen and delighted in favor from the Master. Also, I got something to be thankful for from the Ruler and it is beautiful. We also face the normal challenges of day-to-day life yet not between ourselves. At the point when our most memorable baby was three-month-old, a savage wind passed and assumed control over the roof of the house we resided in. A part of the roof fell into the house, our property got obliterated and the baby became sick and was taken to a hospital. We had to go through the night at a companion’s place and the landlady said we ought to search for another house as she had no money to replace the roof. For a youthful couple whose lease was not due and who had to be in search of another house while squatting with a companion for certain weeks was a trying second however we had the option to weather the tempest.

My marriage…With Bisi Adewale

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My marital life has been peaceful and happy. It has been a satisfaction of sacred text and I have encountered progress more than if I was single.

How have you had the option to balance your career and home? What makes it easy for us is that we are both involved in the ministry. I run a family ministry where I teach and expound on marriage. My better half is involved and we plan our itinerary together. We have a particular day in the week dedicated to ourselves. We have been doing that for almost 10 years and it has helped our relationship because the demands of the ministry keep us occupied.

What has been the best part of your marriage up until this point? I find it challenging to mention a particular aspect because all aspects of our marriage has been the best. I appreciate it because God was in it from the beginning and He is still in it. It has been so cheerful to be with a woman like my significant other and God has been so faithful to us.

What’s your advice to youngsters planning to marry? My advice is that they ought to get information. They ought to realize that adoration is insufficient for marriage which is what many of them get married based on. Marriage is more profound than dating; they need to get mature, trained and understand that marriage is a responsibility. They need to realize that marriage involves mutuality which means doing everything together, letting, “I, me mine and myself” die while allowing, “our, we” to wake up. Marriage is not me, it is we. Marriage needs compelling communication and responsibility. In the event that you are not dedicated to it, when challenges come, you will want to run. Marriage is not a sprint, it is a marathon with many things to drop by yet your determination and coarseness will help you as far as possible. Don’t simply marry the person you love, love the person you marry. On the off chance that you can do that, you are going to weather anything you confront in the excursion of life.