Ruling on standing up to welcome a newcomer

Question

Praise be to Allah.

You
do not have to stand up for someone who comes in, but it is good manners,
if someone stands up for you, to shake his hand, especially the head
of the household and prominent people. This is the matter of good manners.
The Prophet

(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) stood up for Faatimah, and
she stood up for him, may Allaah be pleased with her. The Sahaabah (may
Allaah be pleased with them) stood up, on the Prophet’s command, for
Sa’d ibn Mu’aadh when he came to pass judgement on Bani Qurayzah. Talhah
ibn ‘Ubayd Allaah (may Allaah be pleased with him) stood up in front
of the Prophet

(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when Ka’b ibn Maalik (may
Allaah be pleased with him) came after Allaah had accepted his repentance;
he shook his hand and congratulated him, then sat down. This is the
matter of good manners and this is broad issue. What is denouncable
is when people stand up and remain standing by way of veneration. But
if a person stands up to welcome his guest and honour him, or to shake
hands with him or greet him, this is something which is prescribed in
Islam. But to remain standing when people are sitting by way of veneration,
or standing at the door without greeting anyone or shaking hands with
anyone, this should not be done. Even worse than that is standing up
to venerate a person when he is sitting down, not for the sake of guarding
him but only for the purpose of veneration.

There
are three kinds of standing up, as the scholars said :

(1)
When people stand up for someone to venerate
him when he is sitting down, as the Persians venerated their kings and
leaders, as described by the Prophet

(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). This is not permitted,
and for this reason the Prophet

(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told them to sit down when
he led them in prayer sitting down. He told them to sit down and to
pray behind him seated, and when they stood up he said, “You almost
venerated me like the Persians venerate their leaders.”

(2)

When a person stands up when another person comes
in or goes out, without greeting him or shaking hands with him, rather
simply in order to venerate him. This at the very least is makrooh.
The Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them) used not to stand up
for the Prophet

(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when he came in to them,
because they knew that he

(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) disliked that.

(3)

When a person stands up for someone who has come
in, in order to shake his hand or to take his hand and lead him to a
seat, etc. There is nothing wrong with that, rather it is the Sunnah
as mentioned above.